threeplusfire: (Jane bird)
three ([personal profile] threeplusfire) wrote2008-04-23 11:45 am

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Reading through the internet in the wake of the insanity yesterday, I've found myself frequently upset to the point of incandescent rage by many of the comments I've seen. Most of those comments happen to be from men. As someone who has spent most of my life "running with the boys," it is so disheartening.

A comment I read this morning:

"Except that espousing violence or the suggestion of violence in the face of what amounts to nothing more than irritation or uncomfortableness (sic) is more morally contemptible than anything these socially-retarded boob-honkers could come up with." Shades of the 19th century, when women were deemed to be such fragile moral creatures that they shouldn't be allowed outside the house.

Now. I understand the argument of turning the other cheek, or being the better person. But I find it repulsive to suggest that self defense is viewed in the same light as gratuitous violence. That's fucking bullshit. I also find the idea that this sort of behavior is dismissed as something that results in nothing more than "irritation." Again, fucking bullshit.

I am so angry about this attitude, and permutations of it, that I can barely stand to form a coherent response.

It took until 5:30am to fall asleep. My head is pounding and my throat hurts.

[identity profile] sammka.livejournal.com 2008-04-23 05:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Also is the "shades of the 19th century" part from them too? If so, BULLSHIT. Apparently "violating our personal space actually bothers us" makes us out as "weak" and "fragile"??? WTF.

[identity profile] tsarina.livejournal.com 2008-04-23 05:44 pm (UTC)(link)
No, that's just my observation. I was recently reading about the 19th century and Victorian moral reform movements and the idea that women should be confined to their proper "sphere" of influence, ie the home and religion.

[identity profile] sammka.livejournal.com 2008-04-23 06:35 pm (UTC)(link)
ah, as opposed to punching people?