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three ([personal profile] threeplusfire) wrote2003-02-08 08:35 pm

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I think I've watched this movie three or four times now, just today. Laziness, purely. I should have gone to the video store this morning.

When I spoke to my mother, she was upset that another member of my family had learned of the situation with my sister through what I posted in my journal. Mostly she worries about the news upsetting my grandmother, who has been sick recently. But I feel weird hiding that information, or lying about it. There are too many family secrets already for me to want to contribute to any more.

I suppose perhaps I could write a caveat at the top. Read at your own peril if your life intersects with my own.

My sister did stop by the house yesterday. She told my mother a story that is likely false, because it is over the top and ridiculous. The short of it is that she refuses to give up Dimwit. So my mother has given her a certain amount of time to have the title of the car transferred into her name, and she's pulling her off the insurance. My sister no longer has a key to the house.

It's stupid and horrible, in truth. She's screwing her life up badly.

So life goes on, much as it always has.

[identity profile] delchi.livejournal.com 2003-02-08 06:59 pm (UTC)(link)
It doesn't count for much, but I think you are doing the right thing. Double so for your mother , and the title/keys situation.

Still , it sucks.

[identity profile] rawumber.livejournal.com 2003-02-08 08:57 pm (UTC)(link)

[hugs you tight]
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[identity profile] elionwyr.livejournal.com 2003-02-08 11:05 pm (UTC)(link)
re: sister
*ick*
*hug*

re: Read at your own peril if your life intersects with my own.

...Can I steal that?

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[identity profile] tsarina.livejournal.com 2003-02-08 11:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you.

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[identity profile] tsarina.livejournal.com 2003-02-08 11:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah. Doing the right thing is not always fun.

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[identity profile] tsarina.livejournal.com 2003-02-08 11:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks. And I think we should all have that disclaimer on our journals. ;)

[identity profile] stack.livejournal.com 2003-02-09 03:27 am (UTC)(link)
It shouldn't need to be said.

[identity profile] gadjo-dilo.livejournal.com 2003-02-09 09:48 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry about this whole situation with your sister. Ugh.

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[identity profile] tsarina.livejournal.com 2003-02-09 10:01 am (UTC)(link)
But sometimes it does, and I think we should have such a thing because too often people forget here.

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[identity profile] tsarina.livejournal.com 2003-02-09 10:02 am (UTC)(link)
It is just way over the top, and hard to believe. We hope that she will learn her lessons sooner rather than later.

thank you.
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[identity profile] elionwyr.livejournal.com 2003-02-09 10:33 am (UTC)(link)
After last night's argument...yes.
Absolutely.

[identity profile] janoux.livejournal.com 2003-02-09 06:01 pm (UTC)(link)
argh. the whole situation is bad.

that said, you and your mother need to tell yourselves that you are doing the right thing. there is only so much support that you can give before you topple over.