Hmm. You know, I never once had that reaction. That is to say, i never really thought you were loosing yourself in your relationship. Y'alls is a good one to model, actually. You are very much together, but you still have distinct existances and personalities. And i never found you sickening to be around, not even during your love-dovey newly-engaged stage--did you ever even have a sickening love-dovey stage or was I asleep that week? I always considered you and Alan to be rather low-key in that respect.
There will always be someone bitching about the choices you make in your life, to your face if you're lucky, especially with the large network you've built for yourself on lj. But your life is your own. The only this that matters is that you believe in the choices you've made.
Sorry if none of this is every coherant; it's been a pretty ick few days for me and i just woke up.
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Date: 2005-05-12 03:26 pm (UTC)And i never found you sickening to be around, not even during your love-dovey newly-engaged stage--did you ever even have a sickening love-dovey stage or was I asleep that week? I always considered you and Alan to be rather low-key in that respect.
There will always be someone bitching about the choices you make in your life, to your face if you're lucky, especially with the large network you've built for yourself on lj. But your life is your own. The only this that matters is that you believe in the choices you've made.
Sorry if none of this is every coherant; it's been a pretty ick few days for me and i just woke up.