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[threeplusfire]

Today.

My sister took off with Dimwit today. My mom came home, saw them, and they ran. She gave chase, but Dimwit sped off. He's driving without a license in a stolen car now, as that car that my sister has been driving is registered in my mom's name. I am fairly certain, given the scenes my mother witnessed at the house and the stoplight, that she went willingly. She ran off with a boy who has hit her, who has borrowed hundreds of dollars from her, who has court proceedings going on in multiple counties, who is the stupidest motherfucker I've ever met. Why? Why, for the love of god?

I am so damned angry and worried and just sad. Damn damn damn.

And all I could really do after spending an hour with my mother was go to work, and learn about certifications and market share and census data and various flood maps.

I'm so sad. I'm having flashbacks to the first week at PcO, when I had to take off a day to stay with my mom after my sister was arrested in 1999.

Work was fine, I learned much but now that I'm away I'm just kinda sick to my stomach. Sitting here talking to Melynda helps a bit.

Comments

[reive.livejournal.com]

If your mom gonna report the car stolen? That could be a way to get the police involved and get this guy somewhere where your sister can't keep running back to him.

Oi. Nightmare.

[puella.livejournal.com]

This is such a sad/bad situation all around. I agree that you and your mom should do whatever possible to get this guy in jail for as long as possible. Make sure your mom is slipping lots of birth control into your sister's food as well. :p

[roadnotes.livejournal.com]

Oh, that is so fucked up. I'm sorry.

[janoux.livejournal.com]

shit.

it takes a long time to learn and these gusys can convince you that they have changed when they haven't.

i think that your mom can still report it as stolen b/c your mom is not the one that gave him permission to drive the car.

it's a bad situation. if you ever need to talk, i'm here.

[theotoky.livejournal.com]

how awful. my thoughts are with you and your family. so sorry, t.

[silentjack.livejournal.com]

This is not something you or your mother could ever have asked for, and I hope your sister one day realises what she's doing... I'm sending bearhugs your way and I hope this turns out for the better.

[tinywarrior.livejournal.com]

Hey! I didn't get your message about this until late last night. I'm at work today, in and out of court, but call me.

[ladypeculiar.livejournal.com]

Oh, honey. How awful and convoluted. Take good care of yerself, and know that there's couch space waiting for you in the not-so-distant future.

[coyotegoth.livejournal.com]

Shite. Wishing you all the best, and a peaceful- quick!- resolution.A

[puella.livejournal.com]

Were you at metro the other night when they played blackbird and everyone got quiet? It was lovely.

Why?

[elionwyr.livejournal.com]

Because she wants to see the best in him. :/

Sending love and hope that this is brought to a quick, positive, safe conclusion, with your sister back at home.
*hug*

[sammka.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry about this. I can't really understand why she keeps wanting to see him either, but hey. People are weird. I hope she realizes she's being a dumbass, gets counselling, and comes home. Not necessarily in that order.