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I hate today. Mostly I want to sleep for the next week until it is over.

I wish we had just gotten married before we even told anyone we were engaged. I'm tired of people who want to make our wedding conform to their desires. I hardly think I'm being a bridezilla by wanting a very small wedding and wearing the dress I want. Argh.

Date: 2007-12-21 02:01 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] calledmara.livejournal.com
hey bridezilla, is your address still the same? With the crazy long street name? I have something to send you.

Date: 2007-12-21 02:34 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tsarina.livejournal.com
Oh, it has just very recently changed. Do I have you current email? Mine is amajan at gmail. I hope you are sending me a big bridezilla tiara :P

Date: 2007-12-21 02:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fleurdeliser.livejournal.com
I'm sorry, babe. No, wanting a small wedding and no crazy white gown that costs thousands does not make you bridezilla. At all. Makes you sensible.

Date: 2007-12-21 02:27 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] alteredhistory.livejournal.com
You have my sympathy. I wish my warning had gotten to you two sooner. :-)

Date: 2007-12-21 02:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] avidbeader.livejournal.com
No, having your wedding small with your choice of dress in no way makes you a bridezilla.

Been there, done that. I finally had to tell my mom flat-out that Mr. Bead and I would pay for our wedding ourselves, because she wanted it at a church in their town and we wanted it at the church where we were members. And then I promptly made a second budget and started working with it. That's the point where I got my $30 wedding gown in a thrift shop.

Stick to your guns. *hugs*

Date: 2007-12-21 03:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] alainn-sorcha.livejournal.com
What happened?

Who do I need to tell to suck it?

Date: 2007-12-21 04:39 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mielikki.livejournal.com
You're not a bridezilla, you're just un-American, but in a good way. Vive le not being a bride-sheep!

Date: 2007-12-21 05:04 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gypsy-pie.livejournal.com
Yep- weddings make people go crazy. Remember the love is all you really need and everyone else can suck it! :)

*hugs*

Date: 2007-12-21 05:31 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] abbismom.livejournal.com
Tell the folks to quit kvetching and be happy you're not wearing daisy dukes. Unless you are wearing daisy dukes, in which case I want pictures of your fine self ;)

I couldn't believe the selfishness that came forth out of my wedding, and I didn't even have to deal with any mother-of-the-brides shit.

At least it made for some good laughs now that we're ten years down the road!

Best of luck, my dear friend!

Date: 2007-12-21 08:39 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cymry.livejournal.com
whatever you do, don't let anyone push you into things you don't want. everything tends to snowball - the moment you give in on one thing, they can smell weakness and that's when they go all out. this should be about you and him, not about everybody else.
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